"Revenge isn't always the best way to go, turn the other cheek is a saying for a reason. 

Once you put time and space between you and a situation, you start to see thing's with a more enlightened view and as you grow up they look different more fair. One must leave the poor me, I was so badly treated, angry, hurt aside to see clearly. 

Once you do, life is much more agreeable and pleasant very fulfilling and peaceful."